Add @electric-sql/pglite so the server can run without an external
Postgres instance. When DATABASE_URL is not set, the server auto-creates
an embedded PGlite database in ./data/pglite with schema push on startup.
- Add createPgliteDb() alongside the existing createDb()
- Make DATABASE_URL optional in server config
- Update drizzle config to glob schema files
- Update migrate script to support both Postgres and PGlite
- Add data/ to .gitignore for local PGlite storage
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>